What a day...

Alright.
So I didn't go to English today... I was far too tired, and I wanted to study for Calculus but that didn't happen. I went to Art History, and almost fell asleep. Then, after doing notes at Brennan's, I went to my Calculus mid-term exam. I think I did horribly. I felt like crying in the middle of the exam because I had to leave some blank because I just didn't know how to solve them. I feel terrible. It really sucks.

But other than that it was a good day. I'm excited to wear a new dress I got for St. Patrick's day. It's really pretty. I also have my Japanese mid-term exam tomorrow. I really really hope I get a perfect score but I don't think that's gonna happen. I often make silly little mistakes with Kanji and stuff... but I've been studying my kanji a lot. Particles are kinda hard, too. I really want the college of Arts and Sciences to get back to me on the whole major change and whatnot. Maybe I'll get the e-mail tomorrow. I hope so...

Ahhh. I really don't have too much else to say. We sent out the Anime program acceptances last night. We still haven't heard from one person so we don't know whether or not he'll say yes, but Anime was his first choice so I imagine he'll agree.

One of my friends is considering dropping out of school. I really don't want him to, but he needs to get it together if he's gonna make it here. I'm glad he's coming to me for support. I like to be there for people when they need me. Feels good, I guess. He's a really good guy so I want him to stay, so we're gonna talk on Wednesday. I also think he has other stuff going on that he needs to talk about. I hope everything turns out right for him. He deserves it.

Heehee, Joe got his hair cut. Apparently really short, too. I really wanna see the pictures!!! He needs to get back from dinner so that he can post them online! I'm anxious!

Hmm, well I guess I need to review for the Japanese test... or I'll read a manga or something.

OKAY! THE MUSIC APPRECIATION SUITE NEEDS TO LEARN THAT DRUMMING ON EVERYTHING IN THEIR ROOMS IS REALLY ANNOYING TO THE PEOPLE WHO LIVE BELOW THEM!!!! AS IS THEIR MUSIC PLAYING ON REPEAT WITH A REPETITIVE BASS LINE FOR A HALF AN HOUR!!!! UUUUGGHHHH!!!

Okay, going to go do something else. Mata ne...

Are You Ready for This?

Ok here goes.
He doesn't give a flying fuck about me. I thought he cared for me a little bit, but no..he doesn't. We had everything that makes a relationship except the titles, and I told him I loved him. He told me he loved me, then kinda took it back...
NOW he's told me that he had sex twice with his ex-BOYFRIEND! After I told him I loved him...you'd think he'd be considerate enough to let me go, to stop being so freaking intimate with me...but no! he kept it from me for a couple of weeks! And I've been denying the pain he's put me through, but now it's all crashing down on me in one huge tsunami of hurt. My heart crumbled, shattered, disintegrated...

I don't ever want to feel that pain again. He was everything I wanted. Though the tiny fragment of the heart that belonged to him, which still remains, is denying it, I will never be able to have him. It hurts to know that I will get nothing that I want. So I decided with my friends' help that I would cut off contact with him...for a few months at least. I need to stop loving him if I can. If I can't? I won't ever talk to him again. I devoted the last year of my life to him, and I feel so STUPID now for doing so. The only thing I wanted was for him to be happy, if he had called me in the middle of the night saying he wanted me there, I would have been there. I don't know if there was anything I wouldn't have done for him. And that scares me. It scares me that I could be so devoted to someone. But maybe that's what love is? Devoting every cell in your body to someone. So, if I love him this much...how do I get over that? I said I would come back to him as his friend...but...can I really come back having fallen out of love? I don't know if my heart wants to let go of that love.

So I need to find someone else to love. Someone I can find that will devote themselves to me, like I would do for them. Someone who won't hurt me. Someone who respects me...Someone who won't treat me like I'm DISPOSABLE...

I saw him one last time to say goodbye...I didn't cry until I was walking away...luckily one of my best friends was there with me to support me...and she let me cry...then after I was done, we went out and had a blast. She made me laugh so hard I cried...It will be her and the other friends I have around me that will get me through this...

Did I say this already? A few years ago I was diagnosed with depression. Those who have not experienced this disease doesn't know what it's like to be sad ALL THE TIME. Day in and day out, all tears and sadness. Problems I couldn't solve...people I couldn't stand. I took comfort in, regrettably, my OCD. I would watch movies in my room over and over and over, until I could recite the lines word for word. That was my vice, that's how I escaped the sadness. It was wrong. I couldn't face the sadness so I avoided it. Shit...that's kinda what I'm doing now, isn't it? But what else am I going to do? If I keep loving him, I'm just going to get hurt again and again. The morning after he confessed to me, I woke up, and that same sadness, the way my body felt, numb and heavy and lifeless...that's how I felt. That sadness is one of the worst memories for me, I NEVER wanted to feel it ever EVER again. He forced me...to feel it. So I need to stop loving him...I forgave him, I always do...but how many more times will I need to forgive him if I keep loving him? Doesn't he not deserve my love? He doesn't understand how much I love him or how much I devote myself to him.

So now it's only been two days, but it feels like two weeks. I can't imagine myself getting through this, but I'm going to give it my all. No matter how much it hurts...
But he made me relive the thing that I had been pushing myself away from.

So I've decided. Until I find someone new, and even after maybe. I won't contact him at all. Until I fall out of love...I can't. And you know what. I've decided to pick up tennis. Not even kidding. I'm going to learn and start playing it. It will be my new vice, and it's a healthy one too. My university has great indoor tennis courts, and I hope I can play at least a couple of times a week. I also just emailed the tennis instructor asking if she would give me lessons. So far I've only played by myself against a brick wall, but hopefully my dad can find some time to play with me eventually.

I'm going to go play again tomorrow morning. I think I picked a good vice.

Sorry about how long this rant was...it was long coming though...

またね
美知子

BAH. BAH BAH BAH BAH BAH!!!!
No! There's no way I can love him. He doesn't understand me! At all! It doesn't even seem like he cares...
Whatever, I can't wait for college.
I found out where I'm living on campus and who my room mate is. I bought a fridge and a microwave AND A BEANBAG CHAIR. I'm so excited.
I hope my suite is freaking co-ed...I wouldn't be able to be in such close quarters with only girls...ugh.
I've been looking all over facebook for my suite-mates, but I can't seem to find them. It makes me sad, because I want to know!!!
So anyway. I feel so blah. I just wanna go to college now, and leave everything else behind. Start anew, you know? I just hope that I make a good impression at first at the school, so everything can go well after that...
I'm sorry I haven't posted in a while, it seems like I have so much to do, but I can't bring myself to do it. Like calling my mom, or visiting my grandparents, or mowing the lawn...it's not like I don't wanna do those things...I'm just lazy I guess...
I can't think of anything else to write...
Until later...
美知子